Life is the sum of your choices…

Life is the sum of your choices, how true this is, I have thought a lot about this quote recently and how true it is, whether we make good choices or bad choices they are still our choices and therefore we have to live with the consequences of those choices, be it something amazing happens to you or something heart breaking.   I don’t believe everyone in life makes only good choices, I certainly have made my fair share of bad choices but I own those choices, I live with them and I learn from them, what I won’t do is blame others for what choices I do make.

This doesn’t mean I don’t get to be upset or hurt, or happy or elated because of the consequences, or even have the support of others when I make the wrong choices, its just me being accountable for my own life.   This in my mind makes me a strong person, someone I should be proud to be and yes sometime I need reminding of that.  So next time you make a good or bad choice, recognise it for what it is and move on, learn from it and know it’s making you the person you are meant to be, in the place you are meant to end up.

The sun is shining again today, it’s a refreshing change for a British Girl lol so time to enjoy it.

Happy Wednesday Everyone ♥

Life is the sum of your Choices

CREDITS

BODY:  Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V3.5

HEAD:  CATWA HEAD Cami V4.9

SKIN:  Insol: CATWA face Applier ‘Daria’ – ST5 ‘Chocolate’

HAIR:  [e] Karee

DRESS:  #bubbles Kimmy Poppy Red Bandage Dress

NECKLACE/BRACELET:  **RE** Anya’s Pearls Set

POSE:  ProPose – Breathe Set @ Pose Lover & Friends Event (NEW)

SIM:  Dance Place – Ballroom – Jazz & Piano

Every day may not be good, but there is something good in every day…

Monday already and another week is ahead finally some sun in the UK, lovely afternoon out and about and you seriously feel so good for it.  Today is a good day, and like the title say “not every day is good but there is something good in everyday” I love this quote because it is most definitely true,  you can be having the worst day ever, but something simple like a smile from someone you love, hearing your favourite tune on the radio, the cute way your dog greets you after 5 minutes away, I have the most adorable Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, and trust me he makes me smile even on what feels like the of worst days.   So next time you’re having a bad day, go look for your little bit of good.

Have a wonderful evening everyone ♥

Every day may not be good, but there is something good in every day

CREDITS

BODY:  Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V3.5

HEAD:  CATWA HEAD Jessica v4.9

SKIN:  Glam Affair – Hope Catwa Applier – India @ C88 (NEW)

EYES:  MESANGE – Under the Sun Eyes 3 Exclusive @ Little Dreams Event (NEW opens 17th Aug)

HAIR:  eXxEsS : KATIUSHA A

DRESS:   LSR Moda Dress Siobhan Denim with HUD inc 20 Denim Textures (MP Link)

SHOES:  .: KC :. CINZIA Classic Pumps

TATTOO:  [PU] Celtic Soul Tattoo @ Pose Lover & Friends Event (NEW)

POSE:   [ILAYA] Editha Pose @ Pose Lover & Friends Event (NEW)

 

Let me take a Selfie…

Everyone knows what a selfie is right?  Has everyone heard that stick in your head song “Let me take a selfie” now I’m a huge lover of music, and have a wide taste depending on my mood whether I like to Trance, Dubstep, Pop, Rock, Soft Metal the list is endless actually,  but this song in my mind falls into  the no damn category except catchy but annoying, one of those songs once you hear you can’t stop singing then hate yourself for it lol please don’t judge, I am sure every single one of you have one of those songs, am I right?  Today’s pose it titled Let me take a selfie not in honour of this song, rather this really cute Selfie pose bye INIA,  I had fun dressing up for the occasion in this cute dress by Delicatt Couture and adding a little makeup by Kosmetik to make it a little girlie.   All credits are below, check them out and go have fun this weekend.

Happy Saturday everyone ♥

Let me take a selfie

CREDITS

BODY:  Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V3.5

HEAD:  CATWA HEAD Jessica v4.9

SKIN:  Glam Affair – Imani Applier ( Catwa  ) Jamaica /  (FLF Exclusive)

EYES:  .kosmetik – Mystique Eyes.blue  (NEW)

EYELINER:  .kosmetik Liner+Shadow cat (NEW)

HAIR:  /Wasabi Pills/ Ryleigh Mesh Hair (FLF Exclusive)

DRESS:  Delicatt Couture – Lenna  Dress With Belt @ Pose Lover & Friends Event (NEW)

POSE/SELFIE PHONE:  01 –INIA– 07 -INIA- Selfie GACHA -Iniaphone- @ Pose Lover & Friends Event (NEW)

SIM:  Black Basalt Beach

Friendship

“Friendship isn’t about who you’ve known the longest.  It’s about who walked into your life and said “I’m here for you” and proved it.”

This quote is a true reflection of the friendship I share with Exis, my best friend, my partner in crime who happens to be the amazing girl I have the pleasure of working with on our blog.  We met a few years ago now on another Virtual game and became firm friends fast, I have seen her grow not only with her photography but as a woman too and we have been side by side there for each other ever since, in many ways far more than friendships in real life.   We’ve shared tears of laughter aswell as tears of sorrow over our time as friends, not to mention a tipsy night or two of partying lol but for those out there who see it all as a game they couldn’t be further wrong.

I have found someone I not only share my good days and bad days with, we share confidences and show support in as many ways as we literally can not only about online stuff but real life issues too, and even when we don’t see each other in the real world or lately even in the SL world as we are both busy doing other things we are never far away from each other and that to me is true “friendship”.    She is crazy and unique and yes at times a real brat but I couldn’t love her any more than I could a real sister,  so when I took this picture as she asked me to pose with her for one of her own blog posts, I figured I would call it Friendship and give you all a little insight into “Exis & Jules”.   Happy Weekend everyone 🙂

Friendship

What Jules is wearing

HEAD:  CATWA HEAD Candy V4.9

SKIN:  Insol: CATWA face Applier ‘Daria’ – ST5 ‘Chocolate’

HAIR:  Exile::Reveling In You

EYES:  .ARISE. Nona Eyes / Blue

BODY:  Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V3.5

TOP:  _CD_ Dana Shirt Palerose  @ Fameshed (NEW)

SHORTS:  _CD_ Dana Shorts Ombre II @ Fameshed (NEW)

POSE:  {QP} – Reflection @ Pose lover and friends event (NEW)

SIM:  Black Basalt Beach

Exis Credits can be found here